Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Ideas
There are traditions and rituals spread evenly across the entire wedding process. From the old asking the father for permission to a more recent wedding day first look. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are kind of a recent addition to these traditions and have gone through a shift in recent years.
Being black out drunk in Vegas is kind of not a thing anymore, am I right?
Looking at you, best man or maid of honor. Here are some of my favorite party ideas.
5 Bachelorette Party Ideas
Wellness Retreat
A relaxing weekend dedicated to health and self-care. Think yoga, meditation, spa treatments, healthy meals, and mental rejuvenation.
Wellness retreats in tranquil places like Sedona, Palm Springs, Costa Rica, or Bali.
For brides looking to unwind before the wedding, a wellness retreat offers a peaceful and restorative experience to refresh the mind and body.
Yoga classes, meditation workshops, sound healing, hiking, and massage therapies.
Glam Getaway to a Fancy City
A weekend filled with shopping, dining, and nightlife in an exciting, glamorous city.
Hot spots like New York City, Los Angeles, Miami, or Las Vegas, where the group can enjoy top-tier dining, exclusive clubs, and luxury experiences.
Perfect for the bride who loves the finer things in life and wants a stylish, sophisticated celebration with her closest friends.
Private shopping experiences, dining at Michelin-star restaurants, private club access, and rooftop parties.
Wine Tasting or Vineyard Tour
A day or weekend exploring vineyards, tasting wines, and enjoying scenic views. You’ll learn about the winemaking process while sipping on the best local wines.
Renowned wine regions like Napa Valley (CA), Willamette Valley (OR), Finger Lakes (NY), or international spots like Bordeaux (France) or Tuscany (Italy).
Relaxing, indulgent, and picturesque, this experience allows the bride and her friends to enjoy great wine and food in beautiful surroundings.
Private wine-pairing dinners, vineyard tours by horseback, or even wine blending sessions where you create your own wine.
Private Yacht or Boat Party
Rent a yacht or private boat for a day of sailing, lounging, and partying on the water with friends.
Destinations with scenic coastlines like Miami, the Hamptons, or Lake Tahoe. For international getaways, consider the Mediterranean, Caribbean, or Thailand.
It’s a luxurious and fun way to enjoy the water, sip cocktails, and even go swimming or water sports.
Plan a sunset cruise, a cocktail party on the boat, or organize water-based activities like jet skiing, paddleboarding, or snorkeling.
Cooking Class or Private Chef Experience
Get together for a cooking class to learn how to make gourmet meals or have a private chef create a multi-course dinner at your Airbnb or hotel.
Local culinary schools, vacation homes, or even at a private venue or restaurant.
It’s a creative and interactive experience that allows the group to bond over food while learning something new.
Opt for a wine-pairing class, a baking or pastry class, or a hands-on sushi-making experience.
5 Bachelor Party Ideas
Adventure Retreat
A weekend getaway centered around outdoor adventures. This could include hiking, camping, rafting, rock climbing, zip-lining, or even wildlife safaris.
National parks (e.g., Yosemite, Zion, or the Adirondacks), mountain resorts (e.g., Lake Tahoe, Jackson Hole), or glamping spots in nature-rich destinations like Colorado or the Catskills.
For grooms who love the outdoors, this type of retreat offers a break from the usual party scene and allows the group to bond over physical activities and beautiful landscapes. It’s a great way to unwind and refresh before the wedding.
Campfires, fishing, cooking over an open fire, and stargazing.
Luxury Sports Weekend
A weekend dedicated to the groom’s favorite sports, whether it’s a private round of golf, a VIP experience at a big sports game, or even a day at a race track driving exotic cars.
Exclusive golf resorts (e.g., Pebble Beach, Bandon Dunes), private clubs, or cities with top sports teams (e.g., Las Vegas, New York, or Chicago).
For the groom who’s passionate about sports, this idea combines relaxation with friendly competition. You can enjoy a round of golf, bet on your favorite sports team, or race cars—either way, it’s an unforgettable experience.
VIP tickets to a major sporting event (e.g., a major football game, basketball match, or UFC event).
Brewery or Distillery Tour
Take a day (or weekend) to explore craft breweries or distilleries, tasting various beers, whiskeys, or cocktails along the way.
Cities known for their beer culture, like Portland, OR, Asheville, NC, or Louisville, KY for bourbon. For a more localized experience, you can explore nearby microbreweries or craft distilleries.
It’s a laid-back yet engaging experience where the group can learn about brewing and distilling, and sample different varieties of craft beer or spirits.
Arrange for private tours, participate in beer-making or whiskey-tasting classes, and visit local bars or taverns to try regional drinks.
Off-Road or Motorsport Adventure
A day of high-octane fun, including off-road driving, go-karting, or even race car driving. There are various racing schools and tracks that let participants live out their motorsport fantasies.
Off-road courses in destinations like Moab, Utah, or private race tracks (e.g., Las Vegas Motor Speedway, Exotic Racing in LA).
Perfect for grooms who love thrills and adventure. It’s a great way to bond over high-speed excitement and push your limits.
Organize a race day with go-karting or challenge each other with off-road ATV rides.
Weekend at a Private Villa or Mansion
Rent out a large, luxurious villa or mansion for a weekend of relaxation, good food, and fun with your friends. Think pool parties, BBQs, games, and movie nights.
Luxurious destinations like the Hamptons (NY), Malibu (CA), or international spots like the French Riviera or Ibiza.
You get privacy, comfort, and no need for a strict itinerary. You can hire chefs, bartenders, or entertainment to make it even more special.
Plan a themed dinner party, or rent a private chef to prepare meals.
Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Ideas
Here are a few more ideas that could be both!
Private Game Night or Arcade Party
If the groom or bride is a fan of video games or board games, why not throw a private game night? You can play arcade games, go bowling, or set up a gaming competition with multiplayer video games or traditional board games.
Rent out an arcade, a game lounge, or even a private venue where you can set up a game tournament.
Follow in the footsteps of Sherlock Holmes and plan a night of murder mystery games. Chase the clues while keeping an eye out for who’s out to get you.
This is an excellent choice for smaller groups who enjoy competitive and social activities. Everyone can be involved in the fun, from Mario Kart competitions to classic board games like Monopoly or Catan.
Have a retro video game night, organize a trivia contest, or even rent VR headsets for a futuristic gaming experience.
Volunteer Together or Charity Event
Instead of partying, spend the day volunteering as a group for a cause you care about, like building homes, helping animals, or supporting a local community.
Find local organizations or charity groups in your area or abroad that welcome volunteer groups.
It’s a meaningful way to celebrate, giving back to the community while bonding with friends. This could also be part of a larger trip (e.g., a volunteer experience in a developing country).
Organize a charity auction, donate items for a cause, or volunteer at a local food bank before enjoying a celebratory meal together.
Comedy Show or Themed Night Out
For a low-key but fun experience, attend a comedy show, improv theater, or a cabaret-style performance. You can also plan a themed night out, such as a costume party or a karaoke night.
Major cities with thriving comedy scenes like New York City, Chicago, or Los Angeles. Alternatively, organize your own themed party at a private venue.
Laughter and fun are key to a memorable bachelor or bachelorette party. Comedy shows create a relaxed environment where everyone can enjoy each other’s company.